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The football publication is oddly tedious, yet strangely irresistible. Its title is confusing. The Dear England title already names a hit play, an future television program, and a public letter written by Gareth Southgate in 2021.

This iteration of Dear England is not officially tied to any of those. It stands as an oddity in the expanding Dear England universe, a volume about leadership: a typically uninspiring elite football manager subject that the author sticks to relentlessly, employing the words “leader”, “leading” or “management” a minimum of 500 times across 336 pages.

Questions Raised

“What are leaders? What do leaders do? What knowledge do leaders possess?” he asks at the outset, establishing his argument, but declining to address “How are leaders?”, questions likely saved for a future volume.

Otherwise, this publication has a notable absence at its core. It’s an attempt in passive-aggressive personal vindication, in nearly but not entirely saying the actual thing, skipping skillfully from lingering grievance to raw emotion across a collection of graphs, business clichés and digressions about 16th-century statesmen.

Immersion

Reading it is like overhearing your parents having a mannered but intensely emotional debate in the nearby area while you’re trying to concentrate on a business seminar titled “Numerous Justifications for My Ultimate Victory”. But it is also challenging to stop reading, as Southgate keeps drifting near to a topic you actually want to hear about, before suddenly veering away.

Insights

Readers will find inevitably attention-grabbing disclosures in books in this genre, such is the rapt obsession with the role of England manager. The most striking examples include: the manager made up his mind he was certainly going to quit as England manager after spectators threw beer glasses at him at the Euros; he almost chose to withdrawing from the game at the interval against Bulgaria in 2019 after his players were racially abused; he introduced the idea of set-piece coaches and the entire league in the top division is now copying him; he has now misplaced his passion for soccer, a surprising confession thrown away in a single paragraph at the conclusion.

Guiding England through a time of rage, optimism, upheaval and confinement was a harsh ordeal. The bruises are clearly still raw.

Commonplace Material

Throughout much of the book, the narrative is overrun with an computer-generated word-sludge of commonplace leadership chat. Advanced copies of this book were distributed with reviewers under confidentiality clauses before launch, likely out of fear someone might leak that “tough talks can, by their nature, be challenging”, that you should always think before you act, that guidance takes place where evolution meets compassion.

Sincere Expression

The book contains nevertheless genuine feeling here. Managing England through a time of anger, hope, turmoil and pandemic restrictions was a grueling journey. The scars are obviously still unhealed, even if expressed in a jargon-laden reinterpretation of the traditional coach narrative: why I was actually right about everything from the start.

Detailed Instances

The book’s introductory section, disguised as thrilling recollections of the deciding game of the European Championship, is completely dedicated to how good the manager really was at tactical substitutions (the major criticism of Southgate revolving around he wasn’t good at substitutes). Further on, he delves into great depth about how he oversaw the deciding game of 2021 perfectly – notably the failed penalty shootout – because he complied with a established procedure, which must mean that bringing on youthful talents in the closing stages to take the biggest shot of their careers was sensible and right.

That approach was proved right by a victorious shootout against the Swiss team four years later after a game where England spent the full duration looking as if they were trying to put on a jumper the inside out. “Our dominance in that shootout was absolutely exhilarating,” Southgate states, while likening the display to elite military units eliminating a high-profile target. Dear me.

Missed Opportunities

When we come near to a disclosure, he withdraws from specifying people or giving us the substance. We discover there were problematic England squad members who demanded more focus, possibly because they were spoilt at the start of their time in football. But as you anticipate hopefully, the author is already veering off into something called a leadership concept, which claims that rather than a grouping of attributes or ideals, team environment is in fact a phenomenon that is created by, gah, enough, no more.

Notable Sections

Included in the more compelling sections are when he writes about the gradual nature of building fortitude in young people, or how he tried to articulate what it means to be English more coherently and more positively than anyone else in the public eye. The standout section, there is a genuinely gripping description of that harrowing night in the Bulgarian capital where England’s players of color were viciously abused (and afterwards supported vigorously by their leader).

Heartfelt Conclusion

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